Shared parenting - the other side
I saw few days ago the topic that is "shared parenting "
One of the anti women agenda of MRA is shared parenting for "all children"
Here are some of my objections:-
I am against it
The below is the reason
Note :-
One of the MRA once even justified the murder of small girls by father saying that they are worthless
And another MRA justified men abandoning their wives if they have a daughter by saying it is their right.
Giving this background
The following are my questions.
Why should we have to copy the law of the west blindly why cannot we make laws according to the Indian society
For example in west generally people love all their children unconditionally irrespective of gender
Don't youtthink parental alienation is a blessing in disguise. / shared parenting should be only promoted for sons/ boys only due to the immense benefit it has on the child + you people are men right activists so generally you people care only about the man so I think you should suggest laws which are for them
Because if tommorow something wrong happens you people will definitely not go it will be again the work of the women rights people. While you people will celebrate them by calling them chad.
In a country where people think #woman_is_a_buden #daughter_is_a_buden also many MRA too echoed the same thought
On one side you people perpetuate the notion of daughter is a curse don't leave a bit to shame people with daughters.
And on the other hand you people cry #sharedparenting for all children if it was only for boys then also it would be understandable but for all children!! Considering the background that 90% of MRA think #woman_is_a_buden is it not a pre planned muder..
Why should people promote this pre planned muder
Why do you people don't want women to have life and liberty??
Why to even give them child custody when all they will do is to give the child trauma??
You are not child right activists?? Neither do you people work on that field
Why are you people against a girl getting a better environmet which is not hostile and suffocating to gerher in the name of #woman_is_a_buden #daughter_is_a_buden
So why you peoples should be heard
Also ask why are they against anyone addressing women issues
1. Why do they push for one sided laws like shared parenting
2. Why should women should not have any say to address their problems
3. Why do they make fun of women issues
4. Why women right activists should not be consulted??
5. If these so called MRA would have talking about men welfare no problem but why do they want to promote this muder
6. Why their blood thrist has not even spared small girls
7. Are small girls some shot of collateral damage in their quest for men welfare??? What sadistic pleasure will they get by torturing small girls
On one hand it is the child right to have a better life free from abuse trauma and suffocating environment
On the other hand it is a mother right to give a better life to her child
But what you are advocating for with this is that a man's right to torture harras and even murder his daughter because according to him she is a burden
And even you shameless mra too advocate it by saying that they are worthless.
According to you people
1. Women fantasies getting raped
2. Rape is natural
3. Women love men who are good in raping
4. A man should beat his wife and daughter daily.
Given this context kindly enlighten me why should anyone support shared parenting for all children
When this is a mra narrative who only care about welfare of men and boys and consider women as burden and justified their torture.
The mra talk about liberation of men and that how women are a burden then
Why
Are they crying for shared parenting is it for the child to hear #women_is_a_burden
These mra seems to forget that the child is also a human and not some shot of a land that they are putting men right over here
It is the child fundamental right to live a life" free from abuses and harassment "
If they had advocated shared parenting for boys then it would be no problem but
When on one hand they advocate and justify for
1. A father hitting his daughter
2. #daughter_is_a_buden
3. Not to educate their daughter if they don't listen to them
4. Against the child protection act to be upto 18 years for all children but want to reduce it to 12 years for girls.
5. Support the father throwing daily tantrum at the daughter for its existence don't you think this is nothing less than child abuse. Which they advocate on one hand and then cry for shared parenting on the other hand ??
Don't you find it hipocracratical?? According to me the visitation rights of such fathers too should be taken away
As they are Nothing but child abuser.
Don't you think it will destroy the innocent of the childhood of such girls?
Living in such a hostile and suffocating environment.
So #sharedparenting is nothing but a way to promote girl child abuse.
Talking about men right/ men welfare is no problem but the problem starts when in the guise of men welfare they start promoting abuse; harrasment; muder and a suffocating and hostile environment
for women and girls.
Objections
1. It voilets fundamental right of" right against exploitation "
2. It is against " live and liberty " of a individual.
3. It promotes " child abuse " with no recourse.
Suggestions
1. There should be a concent form to know are both the parties willing for shared parenting or not
2. Ther should be a medical test to know are they physically; mentally; and physically all right to handle a child
3. There should be a proper cheak on the type of website and people the parents surround themselves.
Example:- if a man has a daughter and he types / believe #woman_is_a_buden or surrounds himself with people as such then he shall never get the child custody
4.There should be monthly check of the child by the court for atleast 5 subsequent years;to ensure child abuse ( physically ; verbally; emotionally; sexually and mentally) doesn't happen .
Because it is a child's right to live a abuse / bulling free environment especially from the so called "men right activists " who does not care about child rights and only shout about father rights as if the child is some shot of a land.
Initially like any curious person I too was curious to know more regarding this topic
But as I go deep I found many things which are objections .
Slowly I realized that mra the people who push for this law is trying to shove it down the people throat without any proper discussion
When you hear people talk in this issue you will always find there (MRA)people only talking on it amongst themselves with no one who have different opinions .
The thing which baffled me the most is that even when the other parent is being accused of
1. Domestic violence
2. Child abuse ( posco)
Etc. They basically don't care about the child but for then their own agenda is more important than anything else in the world.
One of the anti women agenda of MRA is shared parenting for "all children"
Here are some of my objections:-
I am against it
The below is the reason
Note :-
One of the MRA once even justified the murder of small girls by father saying that they are worthless
And another MRA justified men abandoning their wives if they have a daughter by saying it is their right.
Giving this background
The following are my questions.
Why should we have to copy the law of the west blindly why cannot we make laws according to the Indian society
For example in west generally people love all their children unconditionally irrespective of gender
Don't youtthink parental alienation is a blessing in disguise. / shared parenting should be only promoted for sons/ boys only due to the immense benefit it has on the child + you people are men right activists so generally you people care only about the man so I think you should suggest laws which are for them
Because if tommorow something wrong happens you people will definitely not go it will be again the work of the women rights people. While you people will celebrate them by calling them chad.
In a country where people think #woman_is_a_buden #daughter_is_a_buden also many MRA too echoed the same thought
On one side you people perpetuate the notion of daughter is a curse don't leave a bit to shame people with daughters.
And on the other hand you people cry #sharedparenting for all children if it was only for boys then also it would be understandable but for all children!! Considering the background that 90% of MRA think #woman_is_a_buden is it not a pre planned muder..
Why should people promote this pre planned muder
Why do you people don't want women to have life and liberty??
Why to even give them child custody when all they will do is to give the child trauma??
You are not child right activists?? Neither do you people work on that field
Why are you people against a girl getting a better environmet which is not hostile and suffocating to gerher in the name of #woman_is_a_buden #daughter_is_a_buden
So why you peoples should be heard
Also ask why are they against anyone addressing women issues
1. Why do they push for one sided laws like shared parenting
2. Why should women should not have any say to address their problems
3. Why do they make fun of women issues
4. Why women right activists should not be consulted??
5. If these so called MRA would have talking about men welfare no problem but why do they want to promote this muder
6. Why their blood thrist has not even spared small girls
7. Are small girls some shot of collateral damage in their quest for men welfare??? What sadistic pleasure will they get by torturing small girls
On one hand it is the child right to have a better life free from abuse trauma and suffocating environment
On the other hand it is a mother right to give a better life to her child
But what you are advocating for with this is that a man's right to torture harras and even murder his daughter because according to him she is a burden
And even you shameless mra too advocate it by saying that they are worthless.
According to you people
1. Women fantasies getting raped
2. Rape is natural
3. Women love men who are good in raping
4. A man should beat his wife and daughter daily.
Given this context kindly enlighten me why should anyone support shared parenting for all children
When this is a mra narrative who only care about welfare of men and boys and consider women as burden and justified their torture.
The mra talk about liberation of men and that how women are a burden then
Why
Are they crying for shared parenting is it for the child to hear #women_is_a_burden
These mra seems to forget that the child is also a human and not some shot of a land that they are putting men right over here
It is the child fundamental right to live a life" free from abuses and harassment "
If they had advocated shared parenting for boys then it would be no problem but
When on one hand they advocate and justify for
1. A father hitting his daughter
2. #daughter_is_a_buden
3. Not to educate their daughter if they don't listen to them
4. Against the child protection act to be upto 18 years for all children but want to reduce it to 12 years for girls.
5. Support the father throwing daily tantrum at the daughter for its existence don't you think this is nothing less than child abuse. Which they advocate on one hand and then cry for shared parenting on the other hand ??
Don't you find it hipocracratical?? According to me the visitation rights of such fathers too should be taken away
As they are Nothing but child abuser.
Don't you think it will destroy the innocent of the childhood of such girls?
Living in such a hostile and suffocating environment.
So #sharedparenting is nothing but a way to promote girl child abuse.
Talking about men right/ men welfare is no problem but the problem starts when in the guise of men welfare they start promoting abuse; harrasment; muder and a suffocating and hostile environment
for women and girls.
Objections
1. It voilets fundamental right of" right against exploitation "
2. It is against " live and liberty " of a individual.
3. It promotes " child abuse " with no recourse.
Suggestions
1. There should be a concent form to know are both the parties willing for shared parenting or not
2. Ther should be a medical test to know are they physically; mentally; and physically all right to handle a child
3. There should be a proper cheak on the type of website and people the parents surround themselves.
Example:- if a man has a daughter and he types / believe #woman_is_a_buden or surrounds himself with people as such then he shall never get the child custody
4.There should be monthly check of the child by the court for atleast 5 subsequent years;to ensure child abuse ( physically ; verbally; emotionally; sexually and mentally) doesn't happen .
Because it is a child's right to live a abuse / bulling free environment especially from the so called "men right activists " who does not care about child rights and only shout about father rights as if the child is some shot of a land.
To conclude
These people on one side say #women_is_a_burden #daughter_is_a_buden
#liberate_men etc and on the other hand they do drama of shared parenting which is a total contradictory to each other .
So, many of you may ask this question that
Is it not better that they got rid of them if they consider #women_is_a_burden and #daughter_is_a_buden So why they are asking for shared parenting??
Well the answer is that
They do all this because they don't want to pay the child support money which they have to pay through their noses now.
